My Life after divorce and starting over
CatchCheaters | Feb 26, 2010 | Comments 18
I want to blog about My life and how I am overcoming obsticles of being a newly single mom and my weightloss and evrything else I want to do to become a better person for me and my kids
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in my opinion i think my mom SHOULD devorce my dad, im 15 and from childhood to now my dad has never encouraged me, he makes fun of me (yes) seriously he yells at for being useless. he doesnt want me anymore threatens to smash my treasures, and when i want privacy he doesnt let me lock the door and he barges alot. isnt he a swell dad? oh theres alot more, he does love me once in a while but thats like when hes in a really good mood and i avoid him i treat him like a stranger and he gets angrier.
my wife walked out on me and our children after being married 24 years. i raised them myself for a long time while working full time and being disabled.i am now remarried . my kids are doing really well and we are all happen even though there mother has only seen them 4 times in the past 6 years. it will get better and you will be happy. might not seem that way now but it will !. you look fantastic and your weight looks ok to me. he left and its his lose not yours. be strong. god bless.
Of course you are capable of meeting someone else. I have felt your same pain. My ex did the same and basically in the beggining treated our son as if he wasnt a part of his DNA. Now….I have a beautiful man in my life who treats me like a queen. Only time will heal your pain. Be strong!
hey thabks i got divorece too
It took a lot of courage to do this Mindy. I’m proud of your progress through all this. You don’t even realize how strong you are. You are an inspiration to all single mothers out there. I’m praying for you all the time.
hello mindy, i understand your pain. marriage is a committment. this means no matter what happens you show eachother respect and patient. when someone cheats he wasnt committed to you and really didnt have true love because true love endures all things. the best thing you can do is pray. ask our father in heaven to open the heaven windows and give you the grace you need. take time to really know the person as a friend first and be honest about what you expect best wishes congrats on weight loss
iam a man i fell the same way you do my wife left me after 7 years i dont know why it hurts i cant get close to aney one it hurts bad and i live alone i dont know what to do
Although this is a painful time. I hope you will not reflect on what you did or did not do to contribute to this all to common selfish person who betrayed you and your children. I wish you the strength to focus on you first and your children, your faith and your future. Although love in marriage is best a following relationship all to often suffers the same result do to blended family difficulties. Look towards positive energy in those who you love and admire.
Your story sounds nearly exactly like mine- I know exactly how you’re feeling. I hope you continue to post as it’s so nice knowing I’m not the only one. Hang in there- it gets easier, I promise you.
Thanks Dear. Please do share some of your weight loss secrets with me so I can start to do some of it. Your message really made me feel good. You can always count on me as a supporter. Good Luck!
Hey hunny,
I know your pain. My dad left my mom, my sister and I when i was 15 for another woman, and i had never felt so hurt and rejected in my life. I’m glad you’re with your kids, they really need you, and vice-versa. You can do this, just keep close with your children and life will turn itself around, i promise.
Stay strong, and don’t push yourself into any relationship until you are healed and ready to move on. =)
And good job with the weight loss, keep it up!
Hey I was at 240 too, and I weened off my anti depressants as well, I would love to be your support as well as have you be my support and get through this together! I do plan on making another video just been to busy. keep in touch!:)
Your weight loss will help u bring back ur self esteem and i am sure you will find a very nice and loving person for urself, who will love u for who u r. I am really touched by ur weight loss progress and want to work on mine too. Good luck and keep smiling. Don’t cry for someone who is not worth it. U seem like a very nice person and caring mother so whenever u feel sad just look at ur kids and u will feel much better. Best of luck dear.
Hi there, I can feel your pain as I am going through the same thing. I am in the middle of a divorce and overweight I am 240lbs and would like to be 150lbs so i have 90lbs to loose. I have a 5 yr old boy. I am also struggling with depression and gaining more weight because of anti-depressing meds. All I want to say that u r not alone there are so many women out there and just keep working on your weight loss.
Thankyou! I will be making another video soon, well when ever my kids let me haha
there’s nothing I can say that would help you I just want you to know that youre not alone, you have your kids, and now you have us youtubers!
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Im trying to loose weight to so lets do it toghether!
xoxo
thankyou I really do appreciate it
Here’s a hug anda good luck!
You have a pretty face=)